If you invited to the home of a Hawaiian person, it is customary to take with you a small gift. Many people choose to take a small food dish, such as a dessert, when attending a gathering. Even if you are simply invited to attend an informal event, such as a games night, you should still bring a small gift with you to give to the host. If you are attending a potluck meal, where all the guests will be bringing a food dish, you may want to enquire as to which food your host would like you to bring. If you are traveling, and able to take a food which is not available within Hawaii itself, then you should certainly do, as this is often appreciated by Hawaiian residents.
Additionally, you should also be prepared to remove your shoes when entering a Hawaiian home, although some hosts may not insist upon this. In relation to Hawaiian clothing, you should also not assume that all residents conform to the stereotype of Hawaiian people which is often portrayed around the world. Rather than grass skirts, most Hawaiian people wear Western styles of clothing, and it can seem rude to assume that this isn't the case.
Lastly, you should remember that while many Hawaiian's tend to speak pidgin English, which includes words from Hawaiian, Japanese and Filipino languages, you should not assume that this is the only language which they can speak. The majority of Hawaii's residents are able to comprehend and speak standard English too, and will would expect to communicate with you in this way. Aside from these basic etiquette rules, you should simply aim to be generally polite and respectful during you stay. By doing so, you are far more likely to be welcomed by the local people, and given a good opportunity to experience the interesting culture and customs found in this part of the world.
